Have you caught wind of the latest tweet from the popular Bravo fan account @yolanda_parody? They recently made a playful remark about Heather Gay from Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, suggesting she might be interested in trying out the substance from the body-horror film The Substance. The movie features Demi Moore as an aerobics instructor who uses an elixir to turn back the clock on aging. It’s all in good fun, but definitely not a flattering comment.
Reality TV personalities like Heather Gay willingly share their lives with the world, knowing that their actions and personalities will be under the microscope for entertainment. But should their physical appearances also be fair game for critique? Comments like the one from @yolanda_parody are relatively mild compared to the harsh insults these women often face about their looks. They’ve been called everything from Shrek to Miss Piggy on screen by their own co-stars, so one can only imagine the hurtful remarks they receive in private messages.
I’m not here to dictate your conversations or judge anyone’s looks. We all take notice when someone undergoes a transformation between seasons, and that’s perfectly fine. But as a fandom, audience, and culture, perhaps it’s time to reassess our fixation on physical perfection and stop placing unrealistic expectations on women to justify the choices they make to meet that standard.
Heather Gay, like many Housewives before her, has been candid about the cosmetic procedures she has undergone. She has openly discussed receiving Botox, lip fillers, Sculptra, and more to enhance her appearance. As a self-proclaimed “bad Mormon,” she co-owns a med-spa in Utah, catering to locals who strive for perfection. While Mormonism may influence the lives of the Salt Lake City Housewives, it seems that youth and beauty are the ultimate goals for Housewives across various cities.
It’s crucial to remember that beyond the glitz and drama of reality TV, these women are real individuals with emotions. Let’s celebrate their uniqueness and achievements instead of tearing them down based on their appearances.
